Well, damn, I AM a feminist
I came across a decently put together article (supported by, gasp, numerical facts) on how women's wages are slipping despite previous years of (moderate) increase. Naturally, I was interested, being a professional, working woman who has 1st hand seen all manner of sexism in the work environment (not necessarily towards myself). I took it as a social litmus test of how role shifts are settling and unsettling, basically re-shuffling into a new paradigm.
But I didn't honestly feel like I was hated because I had a innie rather than an outie until I read the comments. I really like the woman who suggested the word 'female' be replaced with 'black' to illustrate just how accepted it is to downgrade women.
Add to that the Muslim religion, even more debasing than Judeo-Christian role demands to females, has just overtaken as the world's largest following and...
And what? Can't stand on a mountaintop and shout inequalities, that would make me 'an angry feminazi'. Can't point out that women work full time AND STILL in the lion's share of cases play the primary parental role AND do on average 10 more hours of housework than their male counterparts regardless of work time outside of the home (meaning, all things being equal).
I don't know that anyone still gives a shit about lame jokes or typical ogling (and those that do are likely the very ones making it harder for the rest of us)- but the constant expectation that one should be silent and roll with it- hell, believe often times it's done as a test just to see if you can hang with the boys or if you're going to go 'tell' (like the veep comment)- is maddening. And to read bile indicating a woman should just feel privileged to have been let into the room instead of doing her civic duty by staying home and breeding and if she makes anything at all it's by the good grace of her male peers...
Well, damn, what century- or, all things considered- what decade are we dealing with?



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